create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.

Picture33LOVE IS ASTATE OF. BEING.YOUR LOVE IS NOT outside; it is deep within you. You can never lose it, and it can not leave you. it is not dependent on some other body, some external form. In the stillness of your presence, you can feel your own formless me life deep within every other human and every other creature. You look beyond the veil of form and separation. this is the realization of oneness. This is love.
What is love? To fell the presence of that one life deep within yourself and within yourself and within all creatures. To be it. Therefore, all love is love of GOD.
LOVE IS NOT selective, just as the light of sun is not selective. It does not make one person special. It is not exclusive.exclusivity is not the love of GOD but the ”love” of ego.however,the intensity with which true love is felt can vary. There may be one person who reflects your love back to you more clearly and more intensely than others, and if that person feels towards you, it can be said you are in love relationship with him or her. The bond that connects you with that person is the same bond that connects you with the person sitting next to you on taxi, or with a bird, a tree, a flower. only the degree of intensity with which it is felt differs.
Even in an otherwise addictive relationship, there may be moments when something more real shines through, something beyond your mutual addictive needs. These are moments when both your and your partners’ mind briefly subsides and the pain body is temporarily in dormant state. This may sometimes happen during physical intimacy, or you both witnessing the miracle of child brith,or in the presence of death, or when one of you is seriously ill- anything that renders the mind powerless. When this happens, your being, which is usually buried underneath the mind, becomes revealed, and it is this that makes true communication possible.
The communication is communion-the realization of oneness, which is love. Usually, this is quickly lost again, unless you are able to stay present enough to keep out the mind its old patterns. As soon as the mind and mind identification return, you are no longer yourself but mental image of yourself, and you start playing games and roles again to get your ego needs met. You are a human mind again, pretending to be a human being, playing a drama called ”love”
Although brief glimpses are possible, love cannot flourish unless you are permanently free of mind identification and your presence is intense enough to have dissolved the pain- body or you can at least remain present as the watcher, the pain body cannot then take you over and so become destructive of love.
As humans have become increasingly identified with their mind, most relationships are not rooted in being and so turn in to a source of pain and become dominated by problems and conflict. Still others compromise and continue to be together in a dysfunctional relationship in which negative prevails, for the sake of children or security, through force of habit, fear of being alone, or some other mutually ”beneficial’ arrangement, or even through the unconscious addiction to the excitement of emotional drama and pain.
However, every crises represents not only danger but also opportunity. If relationship energize and magnify egoic mind pattern and active the pain-body, as they do at this time, why not accept this fact rather than try to escape it? Why not corporate with it instead of avoiding relationships or continuing to pursue the phantom of an ideal partner as an answer to your problems or other means of feeling fulfilled? The opportunity that concealed within every crises does not manifest until all factors of any given situation are acknowledged and fully accepted. As long as you deny them, as long as you try to escape from them or wish that things were different, the window of opportunity does not open up, and you remain trapped inside that situation, which will remain the same or deteriorate further.
All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen, for grace and love to enter.

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